My Body, My Decision : Matondo’s Story

My Body, My Decision : Matondo’s Story

In the Democratic Republic of Congo, motherhood is often celebrated as a blessing. Yet for many women, an unintended pregnancy can quickly become a source of fear and isolation—especially when a partner withdraws responsibility and support. In these moments, women are left to navigate not only social pressure and economic uncertainty, but deeply personal decisions about their bodies and futures.

These challenges are compounded by persistent gaps in access to contraception and sexual and reproductive health care national data reflects this reality :

only 10.9% of women in union use modern contraceptive methods (DHS 2023–2024). Even more concerning, 32% of married or in‑union women who wish to space or limit births are unable to access their preferred family planning methods,. and in 2024, just 21% of family planning demand was met. For many women, this means facing unintended pregnancies without the information, services, or support needed to make informed choices.

Matondo’s journey

At 26, Matondo (name changed) is already a mother to a young daughter. When she became pregnant again, she did not realize it immediately. With an irregular menstrual cycle, the signs were unclear.

Women discussing healthcare

“My cycle is irregular, and if I said I know how to calculate it, I would be lying—I don’t,”

she explains.

When she eventually learned she was pregnant, the shock was compounded by her partner’s response: he refused to acknowledge the pregnancy and left her to face the situation alone. With no stable income, no independent housing, and no support from the child’s father, Matondo felt overwhelmed by the weight of expectations placed on her. Unsure of what to do, and struggling emotionally, she decided to seek help at the Center of Excellence within the Kintambo Maternity—one of the facilities supported by Ipas DRC.

“I had so many thoughts about this pregnancy,” she recalls. “I kept asking myself whether I would be able to care for another child, especially since I was living with my aunt. I felt lost. That’s when I decided to go to the Center of Excellence at the Kintambo Maternity.”

Safe abortion and the Maputo Protocol

Until recently many women in the DRC had no access to safe, regulated abortion care. This forced countless women into unsafe and clandestine practices, with devastating consequences for their health and lives.

The country’s accession to the Maputo Protocol in 2018 marked a critical turning point. The protocol affirms women’s rights to sexual and reproductive health, including access to safe abortion under specific circumstances such as rape, incest, or risks to a woman’s physical or mental health. While legal reform alone is not enough, it provides an essential foundation for rights‑based care.

Clientcentered care and emotional support

When Matondo arrived at the health facility, it was clear that her emotional state required as much attention as her physical health.

“She was deeply distressed,” explains Aimée Olenga, the midwife who accompanied her.. “She felt trapped, unable to cope with the situation she was facing. At one point, she told me she saw only two options—having an abortion or ending her own life.”

Women in DRC

Through patient listening, counseling, and respectful care, Matondo was supported through a safe abortion process that prioritized her dignity, well‑being, and choices. Afterward, she described feeling calmer and relieved—for the first time able to think clearly about her future. Psychological support, Aimée emphasizes, is not optional. It is a core part of care—helping women rebuild confidence, reclaim agency, and move forward without fear or shame.

The role of Ipas DRC

Matondo’s experience highlights how access to respectful, rights‑based care depends on a strong and well‑structured health system.

Ipas DRC works to build a sustainable abortion ecosystem that enables women to fully exercise their sexual and reproductive health and rights. To do so, the organization supports the delivery of comprehensive, woman‑centered abortion care (CAC) by strengthening the health system, particularly the capacity of health care providers.

Active listening, emotional support, and respectful counseling are part of the rights‑based and quality‑of‑care approach promoted by Ipas, which guides how services are delivered. Family planning remains a core component of the broader sexual and reproductive health and rights continuum.

 

Women discussing healthcare
Women discussing healthcare
Women discussing healthcare

Working alongside government institutions and with the support of partners such as the Netherlands, Canada, and Sweden, Ipas has helped establish a network of Centers of Excellence across the DRC, including in Kinshasa, North and South Kivu, Tshopo, and Tshikapa. These facilities expand access to high‑quality, rights‑based sexual and reproductive health care, including safe abortion and family planning.

By strengthening health systems and centering women’s autonomy, Ipas DRC is contributing to lasting reductions in maternal morbidity and mortality—and ensuring that women and girls can make decisions about their bodies safely, freely, and with dignity.These centers provide safe abortion and family planning services, reducing the risks associated with unsafe practices and improving the overall quality of care for women and adolescents.

 

My disability is not a barrier : Paul, a community actor driving change in Kisenso

My disability is not a barrier : Paul, a community actor driving change in Kisenso

Diagnosed with a disability at a very young age, Paul Kwami grew up as the only one among seven children living with this condition. Now 25 years old, Paul serves as the president of the Association of Young People with Disabilities United for the Development of Kisenso (AJHUKAD) and works as a community health worker (RECO) in the Kisenso health zone. Each week, He conducts awareness activities across eight of the twenty‑two avenues within the REGIDESO health area—ensuring that critical information on sexual and reproductive health (SRH) reaches those who need it most.

His journey has been shaped by persistence and courage. In the beginning, he struggled with self‑stigma and doubted whether he would be accepted as a RECO, fearing how others would perceive him. Still, he chose to attend Ipas DRC’s trainings.

” When I arrived, I was warmly welcomed. For the first time, I felt useful—and in the right place, “,

he shares.

Woman carrying drinks on her head.

Paul Kwami raising community awareness

Across the DRC, people with disabilities continue to experience significant barriers in accessing SRH services—driven by misconceptions, inaccessible information, and community stigma. Yet their leadership is essential to help women and girls understand and claim their reproductive rights, particularly in community engagement and awareness-raising.

In Kinshasa, many people with disabilities experience discrimination, especially women and girls seeking SRH services. These attitudes often stem from misinformation and harmful social norms.

Research conducted by the School of Public Health in 2024 revealed that knowledge about contraception remains low, with 50.1% of respondents believing that using a contraceptive method of her choice exposes a woman to health risks, and 70.7% think women should not access contraception without someone else’s authorization. These misconceptions highlight the urgency of community outreach and accurate SRH information for women and girls.

Woman carrying drinks on her head.

From left to right: the Head nurse, Paul, the Kisenso Area Coordinator, and the Ipas Community Engagement Officer in front of the REGIDESO Reference Health Center

A Framework for Progress: The Maputo Protocol

The DRC’s 2003 ratification of the Maputo Protocol was a significant milestone. Article 14 recognizes women’s right to health—including SRH—and requires states to allow access to safe abortion in specific circumstances such as rape, incest, threats to a woman’s physical or mental health, or severe fetal anomaly.

These commitments reflect the core pillars of Ipas DRC’s work :
Expanding access to family planning and SRH services through community‑led sensitization and strong, confidential referral systems guided by RECOs ; Improving quality of care by training providers and ensuring consistent availability of essential supplies ; Centering women and girls by delivering safe, respectful, rights‑based services that uphold their autonomy and dignity.

Strengthening Community support in Kisenso

In Kisenso—a dense and underserved municipality of Kinshasa—Ipas DRC has worked alongside local structures to strengthen the health system. This includes training RECOs, equipping health centers, supporting essential medicines, and building provider capacity. Training sessions on values clarification and attitude transformation (VCAT) have helped both providers and community actors better understand SRH rights, improve responses to gender‑based violence (GBV), and promote access to comprehensive, woman‑centered safe abortion care (SCACF).

Paul has seen this impact firsthand :

” Today, my community trusts me. Women come to me in confidence for advice, and I refer them to the REGIDESO maternity for care. “

With financial support from the Swedish International Development Cooperation Agency (Sida), the REGIDESO maternity now offers a comprehensive package of SRH services—including family planning, antenatal care, GBV management, and access to safe, stigma‑free abortion. Ipas DRC has also established a secure referral circuit to ensure timely and confidential care. Two trained medical providers now offer comprehensive, woman‑centered safe abortion care.

A study by the School of Public Health shows that 68.4% of Kinshasa residents believe abortion is not authorized in the DRC, and 56.1% think women should not access safe abortion services—evidence of persistent misinformation and negative attitudes toward reproductive rights.

Despite these barriers, RECOs continue to to play a decisive role in shifting norms, informing women about family planning, and reducing risks linked to unsafe abortion. Between June and December 2025, community outreach and CAC services helped 98 women—aged 15 and above—avoid life‑threatening complications and maternal death.

This progress shows that even in contexts where stigma and misinformation remain entrenched, community‑driven change and strengthened health systems pave the way for safe, accessible, and rights‑based care.

Today, eight Ipas‑supported health facilities in Kisenso offer SRH services—ensuring that every woman and girl has equitable access, free from exclusion and stigma.